Not every day is rainbows, unicorns, and cupcakes with sprinkles. Sometimes the only side of the bed you can wake up on is the wrong side. And that’s okay. It’s all part of this big amazingly messy experience called life.
While you can’t necessarily control your mood or all the thoughts that pop into your head, you absolutely can control how you choose to handle them. Having a positive outlook doesn’t mean you have to feel happy all the time. In fact, it should really be about seeing the best in people and situations even during the most difficult challenges.
So how can you choose positivity in the throes of a major funk? Keep reading for some rock-solid tips that are sure to make the sun come out and a cartoon bluebird land on your shoulder — no matter what’s got you down.
Sometimes all it takes to change your mood is to flip your perspective. Try looking at your life or your immediate situation from a different vantage point. Need a little help getting there? Remember this: Feeling low? ARGO!
You aren’t going to feel super positive and chipper every day, but don’t let that keep you from behaving as if you are. Sometimes, you just need to fake it until the real deal arrives. Even a false positive will put an optimistic spin on the day for you and your students.
Did you know a fake smile can actually make you happy? YUP. The brain is an amazing thing, but somehow it can’t detect the difference between a genuine smile and a faux smile. This is awesome because it proves that you have the power to get happy!
Some simple activities to help you “make it.”
Everyone loves a good laugh. In fact, laughter has a whole slew of benefits. From decreasing blood pressure to increasing serotonin, it makes sense to fit as much laughter into your day as possible and watch your positivity rise.
Use humor in unexpected ways:
The long hours of teaching may seem never-ending, so it’s important to find even just a few moments to be by yourself, reenergize, and just breathe. “You time” is important for continued positivity.
Squeeze in some alone time:
Your students aren’t the only ones who can find inspiration in the decor of your classroom. Find small elements to decorate your classroom that bring joy to you and help inspire your optimism.
Decorate with you in mind too:
Not only can your words communicate your thoughts, but they can affect the moods you feel and project. Positive words can remind you how great life is and uplift the mood of those you’re talking with.
Try more positive words:
Perfect days are the stuff of fantasies. You are undoubtedly going to encounter obstacles and hard times. You are going to make mistakes and have mornings where getting out of bed is the last thing you want to do. Do it anyway. And do it with a smile on your face.
Positivity is a choice and one you can opt for even on the cloudiest of days.
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